Things Men Hate in Women

12/01/2011 14:47


You've been together for awhile and yet hard as you try you just can't seem to make your relationship work? Despite everything you do when he is with you he doesn't seem as close to you anymore, or he seems to want to be somewhere else? And you ask yourself: what have I done wrong?

Relax, it may just be that you're guilty of the things men hate about women, and you don't even know it. Let's face it, as there are things we women hate about men there are also quite a few things that men hate about women.Most women seem to be completely oblivious to the things guys hate and therefore continue to make the same kind of mistakes over and over again. Read on to see what things men hate in women:

The first thing men hate is that women don't stick to agreements.Women generally don't stick to the agreements they have made. They make alterations according to their convenience however grave the situation be.

If your man suddenly becomes your whole world, then the pressure is on him. Men aren't overjoyed if they feel they're suddenly responsible for your entire happiness. So play fair and have your own thing, your own hobbies and own activities.

Let's face it; guys have a limited interest in what we girls have to say. Don't get me wrong, if you have something pertinent and intelligent to bring to the conversation, he'll be open to it. But if you want to explain how you washed the dishes until they sparkled or the intricacies of laundry,you seriously risk losing his interest.

When girls can't stop criticizing other girls. They should not treat every woman as their rival. If you continue to criticize your own specie, you would not gain the approval of men because this will only show your insecurity.

One of the best ways on how to keep a guy from getting annoyed is keeping your cool. Don't be the type of woman who cries at the drop of a hat. If things don't go exactly as you planned, try and keep it together.

Handle Your Problems YOURSELF!! As a woman, you probably like the comfort of being able to share your issues with others; ESPECIALLY a man you care about. BUT, men understand this as you simply ASKING them to come in and solve everything for you. This burdens them, and makes them uneasy around you (and it's also a turn off to Mr. Right!).

Belittling His Hobbies.Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than is and that's not the message you should be sending.

Being high maintenance is a no-no in a man's book. Men are not really into women who demand expensive gifts or can't get laid back and relaxed. He needs and wants someone who can get along with his friends, drink beer instead of wine, or even just relax at home together.

Interruption.Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it's best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension between the both of you.

The Life Sentence.Losing their freedom is a huge fear for men. They can no longer go out with their friends, they have to check in with their girl before they go out and they have to consult with her whenever they want to buy something new. This probably turns out to be the thing men hate the most about romantic relationships.

Once you adapt this strategy for your life, you will find that it will become a lot smoother, and you will become more attractive to men in general.

 

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